When will it stop??????

To live is hard enough, but people have to add to the BS of life its self and I don't know why. To be an Lolita it self is hard because we already have people looking at us like we should be in a mental hospital. Rather then the skinny girls mad at the fat girls and the fat girls mad at the skinny girls why cant we all love each other like we should.

I find it a little weird that one can have more fun dressing in fairy kei than Lolita and that should be a very sad day when it happens. Why does everyone hate plus size Lolita's? What is it that a plus size girl have done so badly for all this hatred?

I don't understand what is it that plus size girls have done to deserve all this hatred in the Lolita world. Who really cares if your dress is brand or not. Who really cares if it's fully shirred or not. Why is it that in almost every post on secrets or egl the hatred is so bad that it feels like some girls really want to hurt the other girls. If only we can get together and be there for one another we could change the way the world look at us. We all should be friends; a family and we shouldn't be tearing each other down .

 Being friends is the best thing. We have so much in common that most of you just don't see. We all love to dress up. We all love pretty things. We all love to look our best. We all love to be girly and hang out with someone who understands. We all are the same. Can't you all see we need each other, we need to be there, we need not to shun the new girls by calling them "ita" when you were her once before. No one was born a Lolita. No one was born with the fashion sense to put an Lolita outfit together. We need, want, should, and have to get it together and love one another.

25mo and still counting

I had to take a break from everything. I'm back and ready to turn heads. This go around I will be trying fairy-kei, Gothic Lolita, and Classic Lolita. I understand it's a lot but it's what I must do to find the true Lolita in me.

I love the two plus size Lolita I talk to all of the time. They are my heart they help me when I need them and they are there when i need to rant. I have never thought I would be so blessed with the best female friends in the whole world.

Lolita is had and the in the U.S people already look at us like we are crazy; we don't need to be at each other throat about what not to wear and who is and who ain't doing Lolita right. I believe if we all just help one another and talk to one another we would be just fine. I can pretty much say that will never happen.