When will it stop??????

To live is hard enough, but people have to add to the BS of life its self and I don't know why. To be an Lolita it self is hard because we already have people looking at us like we should be in a mental hospital. Rather then the skinny girls mad at the fat girls and the fat girls mad at the skinny girls why cant we all love each other like we should.

I find it a little weird that one can have more fun dressing in fairy kei than Lolita and that should be a very sad day when it happens. Why does everyone hate plus size Lolita's? What is it that a plus size girl have done so badly for all this hatred?

I don't understand what is it that plus size girls have done to deserve all this hatred in the Lolita world. Who really cares if your dress is brand or not. Who really cares if it's fully shirred or not. Why is it that in almost every post on secrets or egl the hatred is so bad that it feels like some girls really want to hurt the other girls. If only we can get together and be there for one another we could change the way the world look at us. We all should be friends; a family and we shouldn't be tearing each other down .

 Being friends is the best thing. We have so much in common that most of you just don't see. We all love to dress up. We all love pretty things. We all love to look our best. We all love to be girly and hang out with someone who understands. We all are the same. Can't you all see we need each other, we need to be there, we need not to shun the new girls by calling them "ita" when you were her once before. No one was born a Lolita. No one was born with the fashion sense to put an Lolita outfit together. We need, want, should, and have to get it together and love one another.

25mo and still counting

I had to take a break from everything. I'm back and ready to turn heads. This go around I will be trying fairy-kei, Gothic Lolita, and Classic Lolita. I understand it's a lot but it's what I must do to find the true Lolita in me.

I love the two plus size Lolita I talk to all of the time. They are my heart they help me when I need them and they are there when i need to rant. I have never thought I would be so blessed with the best female friends in the whole world.

Lolita is had and the in the U.S people already look at us like we are crazy; we don't need to be at each other throat about what not to wear and who is and who ain't doing Lolita right. I believe if we all just help one another and talk to one another we would be just fine. I can pretty much say that will never happen.

Acen

Hello everyone
ok, this weekend have gave me an incite on myself and others. I find it to be funny and sad the some people have two lives. Some people are different in real life than they are on the internet. What is so hard about getting along with the people that understands you and knows how it feels to be called a weirdo. Why must ones look down on the other that don't have brand? Why be phony to someone that will have your back when your so called friends don't? Why must a Lolita stand alone in a room full of people screaming but, if she don't have on brand no one hears her

When you put up a front that you are the up most right Lolita and fight a good fight to have the backs of other Lolitas then turn around and talk about them like a dog is fucked up. If your so much the right Lolita, the Best Lolita then why do dirty in Lolita. Who the fuck are you to say anything to anyone about how they should act in Lolita when you do worse shit than a nuns would dream of in Lolita.



I think its sad that the only friends I have in Lolita are the ones no one really like or that tell the truth to where other get mad. Its funny that I can not only be myself but, I can also be a Lolita at the same time; where some can only be phony. Also I hope that you "brand" slutbuckets understand that just because you wear a brand dress, it doesn't stop you from looking like a hot ass mess. Finally, Please refrain from whorish behavior while wearing Lolita.

Where I am 13mo later

Yes, it has been 13mo since I started Lolita. I find myself lost for words on how I feel. I must say I have met some of the most wonderful ladies in my life. I also must say I do have my share of bad apples. I have went to I can't wait to go to a meetup down to; I know she don't like me so I don't want to mess up her meetup. I understand I can be too out spoken at times but, that's just who I am. I can't help but, to speak my mind. I love all my girls. I love Lolita with all my heart it's my world. To see the Lolita community go at each other the way they do is sad. We as a whole already have people thinking we are weird, crazy, and they dislike us; so why hate, dislike and make each other feel bad about themselves. I believe as a Lolita we should stick together cause we have no one else in the world but, us.
I find being a plus size Lolita is hard. I find it to be that not only do the world hate plus size people but, being a Lolita on top of that its harder. Stop and think or better yet put yourself in my shoes. Not only do I have the money to buy brand because I work hard for what I want. Being a plus size Lolita is the hardest thing I ever did in my life and some times I feel as if its a waste of time. I came to far to see this all end now. So to all my Lolita's that are thinking of leaving or just feel like walking away Don't!!!!!!! I'm here for you and i will always be.

AP opening

OK so I'm getting reading for this AP opening and I'm going crazy. F+F isn't sending my stuff on time so now I have not one idea what I'm going to wear, but I'm ordering something from Anna house so that will be cool. My bodyline shoes came and they are so cute I love them so much I can't wait to wear them. I want to look good and I know I will so I'm not worried. There is so much that needs to be done. Wish me luck.

My Underworld of Lolita

I find it to be sad that the lovely Lolitas I know are slowly changing some for the good and some for the bad. I know its hard being a plus size Lolita hell I'm there with you. I don't and I cant understand what reason for some to kill their self over it. I am slowly but surly losing my weight cause I love to travel and it not for Lolita, its for me. I know some that did some things to lose weight that just have me scared to death for them.
I'm still a noob when it comes to Lolita, cause I only started march 12 2010 that's the day I watched a short show on Comcast called "Cosplay cuties" that's where I found the name and I fell in love with AP. It have been a roller coaster since that day. I found myself at one point hating my body for not being skinny I was told only skinny girls can be Lolitas, I was told so many hurtful things I cant help but to cry thinking about them. Even as I write this I'm crying cause the pain is just to much at times but I still fight and I will always fight for what I love.
I still love AP but I also love BTSSB, AATP, Meta, F+F, and Bodyline. I will forever be greatful for the first true plus size lolita I ever met my tea party queen( she thinks shes a princess when shes truly a queen.) She is my life saver cause I was going to give up, I was going to go back to dressing like a boy I was going to run away. When I met her she made me feel better, she made me want it she helped me find who I am today. To this day I still have the first PM I ever shared with her.
I have a lot of sweet Lolita, some country but I'm going back to who I really am, who I always have been. Now that I found I can add Lolita to it I'm more of a Lolita than I ever been. I enjoy Lolita with even inch of my body, mind, and soul and as I am happy my god/dess are happy for me and with me. Vampire Lolita is whats next for me i hope u enjoy it as much as I will enjoy sharing it with you.

today is a sad day for Miss Kimiboo

being a plus size lolita is hard even so more when bitches feel that they should laugh and smile in ur face like they are ur friends when they truly are not i really have no words to say how sad i am or upset i am that so many lolita have let me down cause of the why they act or talk about each other so good night all i will tell u more one day